Open a can of...

Well, where do I begin?? I didn't have the "bachlorette" party like I planned... people kept bailing on me. But no need to worry, I will have another one soon, or go out for my birthday.

Next topic... oh yeah... CT! Yeah, you can roll your eyes, I am. So I haven't talked to him in over a week... until today! Crap! He called while I was working and asked that i call him when I got off... something about "we" needed to clarify some things and also that his wifey wanted to ask me some questions. Umm. as delightful as that sounded (*sarcasm*) I said I would think about it. Well I got off work at 4:30 and came home and... took a nap! Yeah calling was NOT high on my priority list. So about 6:30 he called me, and I was about to hop in the shower... so -ignore. Not 10 seconds later there's a knock at the door. Are you kidding me??
Yep. its him. I open and ask what he wants... he starts talking, but all I hear is blah blah blah... something about the wifey wanting to ask me questions that only I can answer, blah blah, and she wants to know if you're pregnant? HUH?!?! Umm, NO! He then says that she is in the car outside... so now what? I go talk to her? No thanks... I really need to get a shower cuz I have to be some where really soon. I tell him that I am really busy and cant talk right now. I also said that if they are gonna work things out, then THEY need to work things out, I am not trying to get back in the middle of this crap. I told him that I was also tired of going thru him with her, if she wanted to talk to me for her to call or email me, but right now I am running late and have to start getting ready. He leaves, and I grab my phone to make 1 quick call... as soon as my friend answers.. BAM, I have a call coming in. Its from his phone, now I don't know what part of call me LATER, I am busy was interpreted into "call me ASAP".. so I ignore it. I finish my shower and finishing getting ready. I head over to see Dustin (that's another story in itself) and when I pull up my phone rings again.

I answer it with full intentions of saying "I am busy and cant talk please read the letter I sent to you on MySpace.
"Hello?"
"This is *the wife*, and I think its really f-ed up that you are not woman enough to at least come talk to me..."
END CALL

Ok, that's why I sent then (her) a message... it said that I was not in the mood to talk; I had had a bad day, and I was scared that if I talked to her I would come across bitchy- which I didn't want to do. So I asked her to either give me a day or 2, or message me back. But, NO! I was furious... that was one of my concerns... I told CT that if she called and was going to get an attitude, I would NOT talk. So, if she wanted to get rude, she had better start typing. WTF?!?!

I am trying really hard to get over this whole thing and move on... but its really hard when they call and stop by for a "visit." I am so over this... why cant they be? I understand that I kinda got myself in this, but seriously, when can we all move on with our lives??

Ok, I will fill you in later if there is any MORE drama... just keep your fingers crossed that this is the last entry on this situation! But there will be more of the Dustin thing, maybe tomorrow!