Don't say "I told you so"

ok, so upon further review... maybe I was outta line by sending that message. ok, well she finally un-blocked me so I could reply to hers. I think I took the best approach, "kill 'em with kindness"

hey.. i am really sorry if you
think i was being disrespectful... i was not sure how your page was listed
and i
honestly wanted to send that message thru you. i figured that you
would read it
anyways, and i didnt want you to think that i was wanting to
talk about anything
else. I know this is a bad situation, and i dont want to
make it worse. I will
not message him anymore. like i said, i just wanted to
make sure he wasnt fired
because of me... yeah i do know how *his boss* is, and so a part of me
said that he is lying and trying to start crap. but it was just the way he
was
talking to me.. idk. i am sorry if i crossed the line. i
apologize.

Short, sweet, to the point, and... not bitchy! I was kinda waiting on another reply, but I think maybe she is mad because I didn't give her any ammo. IDK... well literally not 10 mins after send that message and her reading it... a knock on the door. "Trina, I think I am about to be killed. I will try calling you back later." Look through the peephole... a finger is covering it up. Hmmm... What the hell, I answer it. It's CT!! WTF?!?!

"I think your wife hates me. I am sorry. I was just trying to make sure it wasn't my..."
"Shh.. No it's not your fault. I didn't get fired. My life sucks."
"Yeah you can say that. Sorry, I will shut up."
"She is already planting seeds of doubts in my head about this working... DON'T say 'I told you so'."
"OK"
He gives me a hug, and without even thinking I say, "I miss you so much." What?? No, keep your mouth shut!! Crap, now it's out there...
"God, I miss you so much, too. Thanks for being patient and not pressuring me. I can't stop thinking about you. We talked about that email, and all I could think of was how great you really are."

We talked for a few more really quick mins, but he had to go... pulling security at some club. He asked if he could stop by tomorrow... sure why not. I know I should have said no, but honestly, I have like 3 people up here to talk to.

So, in the end I didn't cost him his job, he was not fired, and the wife is more mad at me now because I was "so nice"...